Lets talk about passive gaslighting memes and social media posts . Please enlighten me . #cptsdblog

Hey guys its me again .

I must make a post about this today, as its something that i know many deal with .

Lets take a moment to look at this image floating around social media .

Seems harmless enough, right?

Wrong . Let me tell you why I don't understand this concept.

(And please enlighten me , if you wish to do so, in the comment thread on this blog . )

Ok, So if your a rape victim , please tell me how to change yourself to make everything peachy keen and top shape again??? And tell me why its you as the r$#e victim who has to or should change ? How about a domestic violence victim please, tell me how THEY need to change THEMSELVES to make things better ?? Or someone with severe mental health issues such as CPTSD , who were innocent children who never got to emotionally develop normally to even be able to understand the concept of changing ones self , who are taught that they are the scum of the earth and everything's their fault ? Why do they need to be the ones changing and not the ABUSERS ??? ( SUCH A STUPID MESSAGE TO PUT OUT WHEN YOU THINK OF IT THAT WAY, YEAH?!?!?!!)

Why do these victims have to take even more burden on their shoulders to make others more comfortable???!! I need to know . I'm seriously asking .

PLEASE ENLIGHTEN ME IN COMMENTS . I WANT TO KNOW YOUR THOUGHTS ON THIS SUBJECT.

MAHALO (thank you)