Stop the enabling . One thing to keep in mind, it says more about THEM then YOU. 💯

Do people who try to push certain views, have ‘their’ own personal reasons….?

I am very aware people often are a result of the experiences in life they have faced.

So when dealing with someone who consistently fails to show emotion about what abusive people can do, and fails to understand the pain and suffering caused…..

Coupled with their continual need to term abusive people as ‘okay’ and have clear issues as to others describing them differently and more negatively….

It makes me wonder why?

Do they have issues from their own personal lives that cloud their own judgment and views? Have they had some abusive family member or someone close to them – do despicable things and so that affects their own judgment? Is that why they are so adamant abusive people should only be viewed ‘their’ way? Is this why they are so against labelling because they don’t want their own relative/friend etc…labelled? is this why they really dislike the view that people ‘protect’ and ‘enable’ abusers? (Answer is yes.)

Do they have more invested in the way they think, than I realise? Is this in fact a personal issue and not actually about me at all, or what I need?

Makes me wonder and certainly if true…..answers several confusing questions in my mind.

We can all be swayed by our own experiences in life, and I don’t believe anyone is exempt from this.

Problem is, when you can’t ask this question and even if you did, you know you would not receive an answer.

But, it sure makes me wonder….

(Taken from cptsd healing blig, link here

https://healingfromcomplextraumaandptsd.wordpress.com/2015/01/10/do-people-who-try-to-push-certain-v theres great comments in there also. Support is out there. UNDERSTANDING IS TOO .

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